Sunday, April 25, 2010

Preventing Cyberbullying

Since most incidents of bullying occur off adults' radar screens, it’s important that young people learn to protect themselves online and respond to cyber bullying among peers when they encounter it.

Because their motives differ, the solutions and responses to each type of cyberbullying incident have to differ too. Unfortunately, there is no "one size fits all" when cyberbullying is concerned.





Never give out passwords, PINs etc: even to your best friend.

Keep personal information to yourself.

Never send messages or comments to others when you are angry, even if it's not at them.

Don't stay online all the time. There is a difference between virtual reality and the actual reality.

Don't reply to cyber-bullies.

If you've been bullied don't keep it to yourself, inform someone you trust, even if it's not a parent, tell a teacher.

Don't delete the messages from a cyber bully, if you delete it, you can't track it. So your bully cannot be punished.

Don't meet people you've met online in person.



The best form of prevention, however, is for us to educate and inform eachother.

• Prevention Suggestions Through Education

-- Learn about computer safety, computer basics and sites where Cyber Bullying can take place.

-- Put your computer in a public place so you can monitor and see what your kids are doing.

-- Limit and control kids same as you would with friends and in cyber space

(The Source: http://www.cyberbullyingprevention.com/)

Friday, April 23, 2010

What Are Different Types of Cyberbullying?

Anonymity
 Pseudonyms
 Flaming 
Masquerading
Cyberstalking
Outing
Harassment      
Exclusion
( The source: http://www.cyberbullying.info/whatis/types.php)


Anonymity

Anonymity is when someone makes threatening comments to you, but is able to hide who they are. This means that it can be hard for you to figure out who sent you a threatening message or email.

Anonymity can include the use of aliases or pseudonyms. Have a look at the book on pseudonyms on the bookcase.
Anonymity is a big issue in terms of cyberbullying. When a website was set up to humiliate Greg Frawley (check out the messages on the mobile phone – on the desk in the office), the police were unable to find the people responsible, as they had set up the website anonymously.
If someone is sending you threatening text messages on your mobile phone, unless you recognise the phone number it is sent from, you're unlikely to know who sent you the message. Or they may use someone else's phone to send you the message. These are examples of anonymity, where the bully’s identity remains hidden.
 
Pseudonyms


A pseudonym or alias is like a nickname. Bullies may call themselves a different name when they are online, to when they are offline. They do this to keep their real identity a secret from you.
When you use instant messaging services like MSN Messenger or Yahoo Messenger, you are known to others online by a nickname that you have chosen. This is an example of a pseudonym.

Bullies can use this same feature to change their name to something that you wouldn’t expect.

Similarly, bullies may change their name to something offensive, like the example on the right.

Flaming


Flaming is an intense argument, that normally takes place in chat rooms, over instant messages or email.


These bullies use capital letters, images and symbols to add emotion to their argument.

This is a real life example from People magazine: "I was instant messaging my best friend, and we had an argument over a guy…The next day she printed the conversation and handed it to a group of girls, but she'd changed it. It read like I had said all these really mean things [about them all] that I never said, and they believed her."

Look how the results of that flame worked out. Never send a reply to a bully whilst you are angry. Wait a period of time, to cool down, before you reply, if you even have to reply at all.
 
Masquerading
 

Masquerading is an elaborate form of cyberbullying where the bully pretends to be someone who they aren’t.

They might create fake email addresses or instant messaging names or they might use someone else’s email or mobile phone to bully you. This would make it appear as if the threats have been sent by someone else, again keeping the bully’s identity hidden.

Some people will tell you that you would give them your password if you were a ‘real’ friend. Do not give out your password to anyone.

A 13-year-old girl gave her password to her best friend. After they had a fight, the ex-friend used the girl's screen name to enter an adult chat room and gave out the girl's phone number. A man from the chat room called the girl's home – but was luckily intercepted by the mother.

Cyberstalking


Cyberstalking is a form of harassment.

Normally messages are sent through personal communications, such as email or text messages.


Victims start to believe that the cyberstalking may escalate to real stalking.



Outing


Outing is the public display or forwarding of personal communications such as text messages, emails or instant messaging.

Many bullies print out instant messaging conversations, often containing personal or sexual information, and show them around to other people.

Even reading out the saved messages on a person's mobile phone is a form of outing. It can cause real psychological damage to the people involved, if the message is private information.

Harassment

Harassment involves bullies sending offensive messages targeted at an individual or group.
Bullies often send repeated messages, or at odd times of the day and night.

Some bullies even post their messages to a public forum - where everyone can see their threats - like a chat room or a bulletin board.

How would you feel if someone sent you a message that said, "I'm going to kill you"?

If it only happened once, you would probably ignore it.
But what would you do if you received the same message, on the hour, every hour, for a day...

Exclusion


In many cases, teenagers who don't have mobile phone are excluded from the group of teenagers who do.
Girls have been found to be more likely to exclude others, boys tend to threaten with physical violence.

An 11-year-old American, Natalie recalled in an newspaper interview how every girl in a class but one was invited to a recent sleepover. The girls at the party went on the Internet that night and taunted the one who had been left out.

Thursday, April 22, 2010

How Are Teens Cyberbullied?

It should be a painful experience of being a victim of cyberbullying. Some people who cyberbully others, pretend they are other people online to trick others spread lies and rumors about victims,trick people into revealing personal information, send or forward mean text messages, post pictures of victims without their awareness.


When teens were asked why they think others cyberbully, 81 percent said that cyberbullies think it’s funny.

Other teens believe that youth who cyberbully,

Don’t think it’s a big deal

Don’t think about the consequences

Are encouraged by friends

Think everybody cyberbullies

Think they won’t get caught


What can Cyber Bullying do?
• Lower self
• Cause suicide
• Cause depression
• Cause kids to skip school
• Lead to issues in later life
• Cause a person to withdraw
• Run up your text messing bill
• Feel sad and lower self confidence
• Cause you to have to change email or user ID to change your identity

http://www.teachtoday.eu/en/Teacher-advice/Cyberbullying/What-are-the-effects-of-cyberbullying.aspx
http://www.ncpc.org/topics/cyberbullying

What is Cyberbullying?


Have you ever recieved an email, got text messages or read a blog posting where you saw the writer had been intentionally negative or harmfull, with the intention to cause hurt? Have you ever heard about online polls where people vote and they are impersonating someone by using their email, instead of using their own? Have you ever seen postings of a rude picture of someone? If so, then you’ve seen Cyber Bullying.

If you’re like most teenagers, you spend a lot of time on a cell phone or instant messenger chatting with friends and uploading photos, videos, and music to websites. You may have online friends whom you’ve never met in person, with whom you play games and exchange messages. Teens’ lives exist in a variety of places such as school hallways, part-time jobs, and friends’ houses. Now many teens also have lives on the Internet. And bullying has followed teens online.
Online bullying, called cyberbullying, happens when teens use the Internet, cell phones, or other devices to send or post text or images intended to hurt or embarrass another person. Cyberbullying is a problem that affects almost half of all American teens. Whether you’ve been a victim of cyberbullying, know someone who has been cyberbullied, or have even cyberbullied yourself, there are steps you and your friends can take to stop cyberbullying and stay cyber-safe.



“Threatening or other offensive behavior sent online to a victim or posted online about the victim for others to see.” (Wolak, Mitchell, Finkelhor et al., 2006).

http://whatis.techtarget.com/definition/0,,sid9_gci1023061,00.html
http://www.ncpc.org/cyberbullying
Where CyberBullying Can Occur?
• Emails

• IM (instant message)

• Blogs

• Online polls

• Websites

• Text messaging

• Over the phone

• Chat rooms

• Bulletin boards

• Social networking sites (MySpace, Facebook)